I just changed # and blocked the guy that I feel like I am in love with b/c he doesn’t feel the same way about me. I don’t want to get hurt and look stupid.
My dilemma is this: I have repeatedly told him 2 lose my # and said I am done w/him. He has even gotten angry about it in the past and said things like “that’s a shame remember this b/c u won’t be allowed to come back”, “u said u were gonna lose my # so do it then” etc. But then the 1st time I apologized and he 4 gave me we talked again, the 2nd time he called to wish me happy bday n we talked again..the 3rd time i deleted him and told his friends to spread the word I didn’t wanna deal w/him anymore and I planned on telling him myself if he txted me..but when he did I was honestly so happy I couldn’t do it and we started talking again.
Anyways, the point is we seem to always want to be ‘done’ with each other but we keep going back to each other as soon as the one person initiates! He has called me 2 faced and bipolar.–I call him an asshole behind his back b/c of his ignoring. Why can’t we just get rid of each other? In my heart I want to be with him so bad! My best friend tells me to be more direct with him but I’m too scared of the rejection! He knows I like him. Honestly I think I’m in love with him but I know he doesn’t feel the same way that is why I’m leaving. I hope he will miss me?! I don’t know what to do please help
Me: Cancer sun, Leo rising, Scorpio moon, venus in Cancer
Him: Leo sun, Scorpio rising, Scorpio moon, venus in Cancer
ps I will take all advice/opinions but plz don’t post compatibility reports. I want honest answers even if u call me a weirdo lol. Even if u don’t believe in astrology but if u do, do u think the similarities in our charts pull us together? so confused! plz don’t be too mean 
I have done a lot 4 him..he never asked but I just did it. He hasn’t really done the same 4 me so I called him out on it! I just want him to feel bad and miss me I guess….I would just like to start over with him 
I really think its those scorpio moons that keep pulling you together then back apart, this is what scorpios tend to do…
but it sounds like you dont want to be hurt…how do you know he doesnt feel the same and even if he doesnt who cares? there are worse things than being in love and just being liked back, try being in love and being hated back! Who knows he may love you, or may soon love you, but if not be true to your feelings. Stop with the wishy washiness, the back and forth, i would question your loyalty and true feelings for me if you did that. if you want him show it, if you want him but can’t take the risk of being with hi, stick to your guns and dont waver!
Good luck either way!
Left by Shar H on December 20th, 2009
Hey, honey… I would trust a little more and go for it. I think you are repressing your own feelings out of fear… and you’re just making things worse. I think you guys may have a real chance. I do think you should just open up and tell your guy exactly what you said, that you are scared but you really want to be with him. Don’t keep going back and forth with him though, because eventually if you hurt him badly enough, you really will never see him again. And, next… without any insult intended… you need to grow up still. You won’t always have a feeling that what you are doing is the rock-solid correct thing… that means you have to trust enough to take a chance. I looked at your sign’s compatibilities, and I say give it a chance. You could end up really happy. Good luck.
Left by Leigh K on December 21st, 2009
he needs space he is confused and scared too so really you need to find out what he wants so if yuo cant be friends you should move on so it wont drive you crazy,,sometimes people are only meant to be in each others lives for a while to help each other grow and learn, you already call each other names so once you all done that it already hurt your relationship , he said once gone your out , your out you THINK your in love if you were you would know, he will always want to be in control and so will you , so unless you compromise it wont work anyhow,unconditional love is the only way,
Left by freeflow on December 21st, 2009